As it is being a woman's day, i thought I'd pen down my thoughts on today's woman. Woman, who is she ? Why is it so special being a woman ? Why is she known as the creator and the destroyer ? Why don't men get these superpower names ? There are so many questions. Women are SPECIAL. Its not a myth , its a FACT. Everything a man can do, a woman can do. Everything a woman can do, a man cannot.
A woman can be a creator and a destroyer. She is just another human being. But why does she have special powers ? It is said that God took so much time creating a woman. What he did was take a man, and add special features to him, each feature being handcrafted by GOD himself and thus he had his WOMAN. Most people think that a woman is being referred to a creator because she gives birth to another human being. But what they don't see is her role doesn't stop in creating a baby alone. It is way beyond that. She creates a son/daughter, a husband, a father, a brother, A FAMILY. The role of a mother is the most important one of them all. A mother is to GOD. "Maatha Pitha Guru Dheivam", the mother always comes first. She has the magic, the magic to make man to what he is. There is no substitute in this world to the care of a mother. A bad mother makes a bad family. The care, the love, sacrifices, everything a mother does is unselfish. She has nothing to gain from it, yet she gives it all to her child. The pains of giving birth, nothing a man can do to equate to that. That is why a MOTHER is to GOD. A mother passes her creation to another woman.A wife, she is the pillar of strength to every man. She supports her husband in what he is. She helps him in being stable, in being a GOOD MAN. She raises the family, runs the family. And she has to do all that leaving behind her own family, a family which raised her to what she is.
But why is a woman also sometimes being referred to a destroyer ? One cannot be good and bad at the same time. can they ? A bad mother makes a bad family. No matter how good the father is , or how good the children are, a bad mother will always destroy the family. When the creator is not good, the created are not good. I have seen families where the lady in the house hasn't been good. And all those families have suffered. The children haven't grown up well, the husbands haven't lived well and the family hasn't been talked about well. A mother is to GOD. And when the GOD is selfish, there is love , there is no care and there is no happiness. Well, you might ask what's wrong in a woman being selfish ? Well, my definition of SELFISHNESS might be different. Selfishness i mean, doing things for herself is not selfishness, but when she questions why does she have to care for a child, why does have to love a husband, why does she have to be the creator , that is when she is being selfish. I might sound rude. But i back my opinion. A creator is one with special powers, a power to create, and with special powers come special responsibilities. And that is why WOMEN are special !! And when they can't do that , they are no better than a MAN. A MAN who is selfish almost all the time.
It is sad that this world doesn't realise how special a WOMAN is, celebrating a woman's day is not going to do much for a woman, but when the world truely celebrates womanhood, that is when i will call it a woman's day. A day when every woman is free to chose what she wants to do in life, a day when she will have the freedom to stand up to a man, a day when she will have the liberty to say " HEH MAN, You SUCK ", a day when she realises she is GOD !! The World is changing, women get more respect than they did before, but it is not changing fast enough.
Saluting all mothers, daughters, sisters, wives - Happy Woman's Day
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